Just few weeks ago heard about Katon and Ira divorced news, me and Herlina talking about Lidya and Jamal who maintain their marriage ... yet.. yesterday the divorce process of them announced.
Olala....
till now maybe almost a dozen of my friends are divorced / separated, the age of marriage is vary but the reasons are cliche-ly same: "Tidak Cocok" ... and anytime I heard that kind of news I always shout:
"Hoiiiiii gua ajah belom kawin kenapa kalian pada cerai!!!"
It's kinda I went through seasons from staying single while others are married, some even laugh at me because I'm too picky... but the season changed and now the one who used to laugh are divorced and then said I'm clever not to marry that quick *oucht!
I may not in the position to comment anything about marriage because I'm not married yet. It's just theory came out of my mouth people said, but because too many friends told me the stories, and I'm the individual who is not inside the "ark" of marriage, somehow I feel I can think more clearly in sanity, don't u think so? and the sum up from all of those ...
Nothing in this world work automatically without efforts dear. Even the automatic machine need some scientist and or mechanic to create it right? And way looonggg process for James Watt to make one bulb working...(bener ga sih yang nemuin bohlam dia? *bad memory*) **oops.. after some Googling need to edit this, Thomas Edison is the one! haha *my bad Sorry ^^** .. Nothing instant too! Even instant noodle need to be produced by large production, huge machine and lots of labors. So if you think marriage can be instantly eternal and love stays blooming romantically without any efforts from both person then you are expecting life as Korean drama!
I don't try to laugh on you or make fun of it... indeed I feel sad about it... No separation sounds good....but I just want to tell what I'm thinking about it, in hope it will let the singles to slow down the romance and learn from other's mistake. And the most important: Cling to and Stay in GOD! any efforts will be useless if the basic foundation is not God's love!
Use your talent to build yourself first, rather than using your beautiful face and smart brain to seduce people or to promote yourself, promotion come from God, so stay in His guidance, people may say you are way too picky, but holding on, stay friendly stay picky! picky in HIS standard is never wrong... I'm still got that predicate of most picky here...so if you are 15 and have no boyfriend/girlfriend...stay cool! you are not weird... I'm 30 and single (bahkan pacaran cuman sekali).. so beat my record hahaha ...
Olala....
till now maybe almost a dozen of my friends are divorced / separated, the age of marriage is vary but the reasons are cliche-ly same: "Tidak Cocok" ... and anytime I heard that kind of news I always shout:
"Hoiiiiii gua ajah belom kawin kenapa kalian pada cerai!!!"
It's kinda I went through seasons from staying single while others are married, some even laugh at me because I'm too picky... but the season changed and now the one who used to laugh are divorced and then said I'm clever not to marry that quick *oucht!
I may not in the position to comment anything about marriage because I'm not married yet. It's just theory came out of my mouth people said, but because too many friends told me the stories, and I'm the individual who is not inside the "ark" of marriage, somehow I feel I can think more clearly in sanity, don't u think so? and the sum up from all of those ...
Nothing in this world work automatically without efforts dear. Even the automatic machine need some scientist and or mechanic to create it right? And way looonggg process for James Watt to make one bulb working...(bener ga sih yang nemuin bohlam dia? *bad memory*) **oops.. after some Googling need to edit this, Thomas Edison is the one! haha *my bad Sorry ^^** .. Nothing instant too! Even instant noodle need to be produced by large production, huge machine and lots of labors. So if you think marriage can be instantly eternal and love stays blooming romantically without any efforts from both person then you are expecting life as Korean drama!
I don't try to laugh on you or make fun of it... indeed I feel sad about it... No separation sounds good....but I just want to tell what I'm thinking about it, in hope it will let the singles to slow down the romance and learn from other's mistake. And the most important: Cling to and Stay in GOD! any efforts will be useless if the basic foundation is not God's love!
Use your talent to build yourself first, rather than using your beautiful face and smart brain to seduce people or to promote yourself, promotion come from God, so stay in His guidance, people may say you are way too picky, but holding on, stay friendly stay picky! picky in HIS standard is never wrong... I'm still got that predicate of most picky here...so if you are 15 and have no boyfriend/girlfriend...stay cool! you are not weird... I'm 30 and single (bahkan pacaran cuman sekali).. so beat my record hahaha ...
really really a good one... very inspiring...
BalasHapusThanks anonymous... whoever you are ;)
BalasHapus